3 Methods for Clearing Mental Clutter
by: ADD Coach Jennifer Koretsky
Many adults with ADD have
a hard time slowing down their brains. Thoughts often come at
whirlwind speed, and it can be hard to concentrate on the tasks at
hand when so many other thoughts are floating around in the brain.
I call this "mental clutter."
Often times, mental clutter is made up of worries and bad feelings.
(Very few people get overwhelmed by the amount of positive thoughts
in their heads!) Regrets of the past and worries about the future
can easily overshadow the present moment. Self-doubt can also take
up a lot of space in the mind. When an excess of these types of
thoughts take over in the brain, it can be stressful, upsetting,
and sometimes even paralyzing.
The best way to clear this mental clutter is to process the
thoughts, rather than letting them swim around in your brain. Doing
so will allow you to focus on the present moment, and feel more
calm and centered.
The following 3 methods have proven very helpful in clearing mental
clutter.
1. Write
A great way to clear mental clutter is to transfer the thoughts
from your brain onto paper. This can be in the form of a to-do
list, an email to a supportive person in your life, or a journal
entry. When the thoughts are recorded, there is no need for your
brain to hold on to them.
Additionally, if you feel weighed down by a situation (like an
argument with a family member) writing about it can help you
process your feelings. You can get a better grip on the events, how
you feel, and what you might have done differently. A page or two
might be all it takes.
2. Talk
Many people with ADD are "verbal processors." This means that we
often work through thoughts and feelings by talking them out. It
helps to have an objective person to talk to, who can mirror your
thoughts and talk them out with you. However, the very act of
talking is often what does the trick, so having someone to talk to
isn't always necessary. Many people find that talking into a tape
recorder suits their needs. Others talk to plants or animals. (I
talk to my dog so much that I'm surprised she doesn't talk back by
now!)
3. Move
Some ADDers can clear mental clutter by moving. Something as simple
as a 10-minute walk can give the brain a needed jolt. Others may
find that they feel free of extraneous thoughts after a visit to
the gym. The time alone combined with the physical activity proves
to be a successful formula for some ADDers to work through their
mental clutter.
It's best to experiment with the different methods and see which
work best for you in the different areas of your life. The
important thing to know is that with a little time-out, mental
clutter can be cleared!
Jennifer Koretsky is a
Professional ADD Management Coach who helps adults manage their ADD
and move forward in life. She encourages clients to increase
self-awareness, focus on strengths and talents, and create
realistic action plans. She offers a 90-day intensive
skill-building program, workshops, and private coaching. Her work
has been featured in numerous media, including The New York Times
Magazine and The Times (UK). To subscribe to Jennifer’s free email
newsletter, The ADD Management Guide, please visit
http://www.addmanagement.com/e-newsletter.htm
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